Any woman who has ever had an orgasm will tell you that it takes a lot of work to get the movements perfected that makes us ohh and ah. as if it were the actual Fourth of July.
The good news is that once we get it right, most of us are stuck with it. The orgasmic train is speeding ahead.
I think sluggish sex was the final straw for me. I enjoy Sex when we exchange glances and I can tell how happy he is with me. It makes me feel attracted to Sex.
To find out what turns other ladies on (you know, so you can steal their skills), we chatted with genuine, brave women who were extremely honest about the move that attracted them. granted them their largest-ever O.
Slow And Steady
- It took a significant relationship and a lot of chemistry for me to feel comfortable enough to let loose, so I couldn’t just orgasm with anyone. When he thrusts slowly while staring directly into my eyes and simultaneously caressing me, I can also experience an orgasm in the missionary position.
Reverse Cowgirl
- I had not experienced an orgasm in my first twenty-three years of existence, and my lover finds it difficult to hold his sex for more than five minutes at a time. I was interested in learning more about this experience that I had read about and heard my friends discuss over a boozy brunch.
- I’ve found that my husband can endure the longest in reverse cowgirl. We also discovered via trial and error that I can get off if he stimulates my clit while he’s inside of me and thrusts forcefully enough! Because of it, my boyfriend and I feel so much more intimate and close.
Girl On Top
- I could easily get an orgasm for years, but I never could seem to accomplish it during a sexual encounter. Using my hands alone was considerably easier for me (my husband’s hand did not work either). I was on top when I managed to cross the finish line for the first time. I was excited enough to get there by the friction of rubbing against my husband’s pelvis while he was dragging me back and forth. However, we’re still unsure if he’s hit my G-spot. On our list, that comes next!
Hips Raised
- Finding out that I can orgasm while I’m lying flat on my stomach with my hips lifted (either naturally or with the help of a cushion) took me a while and quite a few guys. I use a larger pillow if the guy is smaller so he can thrust at a higher angle and my hips are supported up higher.
Missionary
- I experimented a little with my dildo and read in a magazine about the ideal sex positions for orgasms. I then tested what I had learned with a relatively new companion. I had never had an orgasm during sex before, but we tried it with good ol’ missionary, me lifting my hips. I tried creating a bridge with my hips, and it worked. These days, I usually use a Liberator pillow to raise my hips and get an orgasm. In addition, I discovered via experimentation with various partners that I orgasm readily when I’m in the lead.
One Legged Doggy
- My new boyfriend is really big, so at first, his package intimidated me. However, I now fully accept Sex. We worked together to identify my G-spot and attempted nearly every position in the book. I ultimately found that elevating my left leg over my right shoulder helped. Although it seems a bit strange, I find it effective.
The Dirty Dangle
- I had my first orgasm during sex when I was being entered with my legs hanging off the bed (or couch, depending on where it’s going down). I know this sounds weird, and it has to some of my friends. Although it appears strange, the angle is ideal since the guy’s thrusts and pushes land precisely on my G-spot. Because your butt is half off the bed, this position requires some ab effort, as it’s well worth it when you hit your climax!
